Girls don’t have exclusive rights to being sugar babies. Any good-looking guy short on cash can just as easily join the ranks and become a male sugar baby. Today, we look at this exclusive corner of the sugar bowl. I’ll ...
I know that the idea of getting a sugar daddy who makes all your financial needs and dreams happen is very alluring and, at the same time, nerve-wracking. There are many weirdos online who pretend to be rich sugar daddies but are just scammers. I understand your worries. That’s why I’m here to pass on real talk from experienced SBs and SDs about finding and building a genuine sugar relationship. No stress, no gray hairs—just the sweet stuff.
Where to Find a Sugar Daddy?
One of the first things that you do when you’re looking for a sugar daddy is to pick a suitable sugar dating spot. Your luck, sugar dating is extremely popular these days, and your options are quite big. But let’s start with my fav—niche sugar daddy dating sites.
Why do they work best?
- All the members on the site are looking for the same thing, so you spend less time searching and explaining.
- Location-based search makes it faster to connect with potential SDs.
- You generally have more options, as you can search worldwide.
- You can stay in active search for as long as you like and have a never-ending stream of SDs.
Some casual dating services also work well, as they have a lot of wealthy men. However, you need to be prepared to spend more time searching, as not all men will be interested in entering into sugar arrangements, as most are still seeking hookups and casual fun.
Offline search also works for some sugar babies. I’d say it’s more effective if you live near affluent neighborhoods and have access to more private and luxurious establishments in the area. Well, you always have a chance to meet a sugar daddy in your favorite fast food chain line, but what are the chances he has the same cravings as you? If you choose offline search for an SD, consider going for:
- High-end dining spots in your area
- Private gyms and sports clubs
- Yacht, golf, or horse-riding clubs
- Closed-door nightclubs and bars
However, I don’t want you to wear rose-colored glasses, as finding a sugar daddy offline is not easy. Possible? Yes. But way harder than joining a niche sugar daddy site.
How to Find a Sugar Daddy?
You can have a mix of online and offline search. And your strategy will look something like this:
- Explore reputable sugar dating sites.
- Pick one or a few that match your criteria and join them.
- Create an eye-catching profile that is based on good photos.
- Be flirty in your bio, but also communicate your sugar dating goals.
- Use search filters to find SDs who match your financial needs but also your tastes.
- Approach SDs daily and reply to incoming offers.
- Don’t rush into the first SD right away; explore your options and negotiate the most beneficial arrangement for you.
- Set clear boundaries and learn the expectations from the very beginning.
Also, be prepared that you might find a suitable sugar daddy in a few days, but it may also take months. It’s not something that you can exactly predict. But my secret key to finding a sugar daddy faster is choosing a popular and reputable sugar daddy site that provides you with potential options. The better the quality of the platform, the more potential wealthy sugar daddies you get.
How to Find a Sugar Daddy that Doesn’t Want to Meet
I won’t lie, there are not many sugar daddies who are interested in cyber sugar dating. I’d say 90-95% are looking for traditional sugar arrangements with some sort of intimacy. But some wealthy guys just want to have that emotional companionship, or just want to get the pleasure of making a beautiful girl’s dreams happen.
To find a sugar daddy who doesn’t want to meet, you should:
- Have profiles on multiple popular sugar dating apps and sites.
- Make it clear in your profile that you are looking for an arrangement with no meetings; it will save you a lot of time replying to SDs who are just looking for something different.
- Be active on those sites and approach sugar daddies daily.
Another thing that you should understand is that your expectations of being a cyber sugar baby should be realistic:
- Don’t expect to earn $3,000+ from an SD, which is average for traditional sugar arrangements.
- There is still some sort of sexual context between you and your SD. It might be photos, videos, calls, or video chat.
- Most cyber sugar daddies are significantly older, often 70+, and you’d be okay with that.
And I also want you to get some bonus tips on being a cyber sugar baby:
- Don’t lie that you are looking for a traditional sugar arrangement. There is no point in that. Sooner or later, your sugar daddy will find out and just disappear. As most sugar daddies don’t pay anything up front, you’ll just end up wasting a lot of time.
- Make privacy your top priority. Never share your personal information, where you live, banking data, and other sensitive info. Also, be mindful of the content you share so that you never get blackmailed. Ensure that the photos you share do not reveal your location, as there are many stalkers online.
Use those tips to have a successful experience looking for a sugar daddy online.
How to Get a Sugar Daddy
Finding a potential sugar partner is not as hard as making the relationship work. Many of the first sugar dates and up in nothing. And the percentage of sugar babies who reach the third date is even less. But why?
Being a successful sugar baby is a skill that requires mastery. And here are a few tips that I’ve gathered from active sugar babies who’ve been in the bowl from 6 months to 8 years:
- Invest in your appearance. Your youth and beautiful looks are your main “commodity.” So, there is no standard to fit in terms of weight or height, but you should take good care of your looks and grooming. Being neat, smelling good, and having a lovely manicure is a must. Rich men are used to having the best women, and you’ll need to look elite to get noticed.
- Develop your communication skills. Though many people assume that sugar relationships are only about intimacy, they are mistaken. Having a steamy night or two is enjoyable, but being able to have fun talking on dates is what makes a relationship a lasting one.
- Grow your emotional intellect. If you understand what emotional need your SD wants to cover with you, instead of dating one of the “free” girls who are lined up with the most wealthy men, you’ll get your golden ticket.
- Keep things private. 99% of the high-profile men don’t want their sugar relationship to be public, and you need to honor that.
- Treat sugar daddy dating as a job. You need to stick to the rules and expectations of your arrangement to make things work. The more professional you are about your dates, the better experience you’ll get.
- Don’t catch feelings, as it can get messy. It’s an additional point to treating your sugar relationship as a job, as it also requires keeping emotions separate. It’s unavoidable to care about a person you are in the same arrangement with for a long time, but you need to understand that it’s a no-strings-attached thing.
This advice is on point. Keep it in mind and use it for your sugar daddy search!
Final Thoughts
Finding a sugar daddy is not a piece of cake, but it’s also not rocket science. If you’re persistent enough and ready to treat it as a job, you have a lot of potential rich guys in your DMs. Just pick the right sugar daddy site and follow the rules of sugar dating to make things work as you want!
