If you’re here because you would like to know more about the world of sugar dating, congratulations—it’s probably the best place you could find. I’m not gonna brag, but I have some of the best and some of the most useful guides for sugar babies, mommas, and daddies here. You can simply scroll down and choose the guide you need. They are all here on this page. But we can also do it more naturally, from the very beginning.
And the very beginning here is: what does it even mean to be a sugar baby or daddy?
Let’s get straight to the point: A sugar relationship is a transactional relationship between a sugar baby—typically, a young and hot lady in her 20s who needs to pay off her student loans and to buy a new Hermes handbag, and a sugar daddy who is usually a mature and successful man in his 40s or 50s. There are options, of course. I know extremely successful sugar babies in their 30s, and I have heard of hot and young sugar daddies in their 30s.
There are male sugar babies, too—some of them are gay, the others are interested not in sugar babies but in sugar mommas who are usually wealthy and experienced ladies (not to be confused with cougars who are just experienced ladies interested in younger guys).
There might be even more variations, but the most common sugar couple still looks like this: a young, hot, and sexy woman who has a “transactional relationship” with a mature, experienced, and rich man. The age gap might be around 20–40 years, and it’s totally ok, all those “divide your age by 2 and add 7” rules have no power in the world of sugar dating.
I used the word transactional twice (and I’m going to use it 3 more times) for a good reason. Yeah, some might say that every relationship is transactional to a certain degree, and so on, but look, I’m not here for philosophical debates. If it’s transactional, it’s transactional—when a woman expects money or gifts (that’s what they call “sugar”) in exchange for intimacy, that’s what it is.
A sugar baby needs money and gifts. A sugar daddy wants sex and companionship from a sexy young lady. When they meet and satisfy each other’s needs, it’s called a sugar relationship.
Let’s say you woke up today thinking about sugar dating and decided to try it.
In this case, you’ll need one of these two guides—in the first one, I explain how to become sugar daddy and the second one is about how to become sugar baby. In short, it’s easier than lots of people think—but there are lots of minor nuances you need to be aware of not to screw up. From choosing the right app to building a strategy, from defining your boundaries to discussing the sugar baby allowance (another guide, click to read it)… There are numerous pitfalls to avoid, and I would be delighted to guide you in this new world.
That’s not all, of course. If you’re a beginner, you definitely should read the guides about how to find sugar daddy and how to find sugar baby. And there’s also a guide on how to find sugar momma—there are only a few sugar mommas sites and apps available today, so make sure you don’t miss this guide if you’re a lesbian or a male sugar baby (yes, it’s also a guide, I explain how can a man become a successful sugar baby there).
Sugar relationships have lots of benefits. From literal financial benefits to emotional ones, there are a lot of reasons why it’s a good idea to find a sugar partner. However, this world is also full of misunderstandings and awkward moments, especially when it comes to beginners. I know a first-time sugar baby who was so embarrassed when she was thinking about how she would discuss the allowance with a sugar daddy, she ended her (very prospective) relationship at the very beginning.
I understand, yes. But that’s not how it should work. The financial part is an essential part of sugar dating, so discussing it should not be embarrassing or awkward. That’s exactly why you should read the guide about how to ask sugar daddy for money—there, I explain how to do it naturally and without any awkwardness. Seriously, read it, it’s one of my favorites.
And, while on the subject of the financial side of sugar dating, there are two other guides you can’t miss: the one about sugar daddy apps that send money (because not all of these apps are actually good for you) and the one about how to be a sugar baby online—I see that many sugar babies today want to stay online and still make money, and in that guide, I’ll explain how to make everything right.
Another thing you have to understand is that sugar relationships can be dangerous. It’s sad but true: romance scams are thriving, and the world of sugar dating is like catnip to romance scammers, which is not surprising, taking into account the number of wealthy men on sugar dating apps. If you’re a sugar daddy, read this guide on sugar daddy scam—I’ll explain how to minimize the risks.
But it’s not just sugar daddies who are at risk. Read the guides on sugar baby scam and sugar momma scam, too—you will find a lot of useful and interesting facts here. And you’ll also learn how not to lose money, of course.
Want to know more?
This is not a full list of my guides, I’m currently in the process of writing several new ones. And if you have any ideas or questions, you can contact me right on this site—I’d love to hear from you!
