How To Become Sugar Baby: Guide, Tips, Rules

“It’s simple, you just need a Seeking account”, that’s what I heard from a wannabe sugar baby on TikTok a few days ago. Well, no, honey, that’s not how it works. At least that’s not how it works if you want to become a good sugar baby, if you know what I mean. When I say “good sugar baby” I mean “a sugar baby who makes money”, not a girl from TikTok who wastes her precious years on splenda and salt daddies who pay them $200 per meeting. It’s sad. You deserve more, that’s what I think. So here’s a guide for you.

How to become a sugar baby? Step by step

First, technical things. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to start it:

Choose a sugar dating site. You can do it offline, too, but it takes a lot of time and effort, it’s still not 100% acceptable, and you will probably get a lot of awkward moments. I don’t like awkward moments. You know that feeling when you wave back at someone who wasn’t waving at you? Well, the feeling of being rejected by a potential sugar daddy IRL is much worse. Online dating is convenient and easy, millions of girls do it online, and you should do it online, too.
Create a profile. I’ll get into that later, but for now, just remember that your dating profile is everything, it’s the alpha and omega, it’s the reason for sugar babies to compete for your attention. Your photos must be perfect, your profile bio must be perfect, everything must be perfect.
Buy a premium membership. Even if it’s not required (I know some websites which are free for girls), you still should buy it. It’s not that expensive, consider it an investment that will pay you tens of thousands later. I’ll return to that later, too.

Well, that’s all. Technically, you’re a sugar baby now, if you believe the words of a random girl from TikTok.

Continue reading, it’s time to become a good sugar baby.

How to be a sugar baby and what does it mean?

According to different vocabularies, a sugar relationship is a mutually beneficial relationship between an attractive and young person who dates an older and financially successful person aka sugar daddy. That’s boring but it’s the main idea, the quintessence of a sugar relationship. Do not let others mess with your mind, this is not a movie and sugar daddies typically don’t fall in love with their babies.

Remember: it’s all about mutually beneficial relationships.

Your benefits are clear: money, gifts, trips, experience, and so on. It’s the sugar daddies’ benefits where most sugar babies have an understanding problem.

The thing is, for most of them, it’s just sex. “I go to a motel, we meet, when it’s over, I grab money and leave”. This… You know, this kind of relationship has the right to exist, too, but calling it “sugar” is not honest. If you come, have sex, get money, and leave, it’s called sex work. It’s not sugar dating.

Sugar dating is about providing benefits to each other. A good sugar baby provides much, much more than just sex. A sugar baby that most daddies need:

provides emotional support without drama
provides companionship
provides exactly that form of escape sugar daddies want
has great emotional intelligence and she knows how to listen and what to say, etc, etc.

A good sugar baby is not a sex robot or an actress who fakes everything, she’s a companion, a woman who can give man exactly what he wants or needs—and it might surprise you but most sugar daddies don’t want a sex doll, they want a woman or even just a listener who will like them genuinely and who has something to offer aside from sex.

And if you do everything right, you’ll get much more than the absolute majority of those sugar babies from TikTok. It’s all about mutual benefits and the more benefits you provide, the faster you’ll buy that BMW or repay your student loan.

How to be a sugar baby online and is it actually possible?

No, it’s almost impossible.

There are rumors about girls who succeeded at it and found a perfect online-only sugar daddy who pays them for communication and photos, yes.

There are also rumors about rich and handsome sugar daddies who fell in love with sugar babies and married them.

It could’ve happened once or twice or maybe even 10 times in history, but there are millions of sugar daddies, tens of millions of sugar babies, and only a few cases where it worked. I know a girl who wanted to be a 100% online sugar baby—she’s now in the top 10% of all OnlyFans creators and as far as I know, she’s happy about her new life. She takes photos and videos and gets money for it—who cares if she has one sugar daddy or 5,000 subscribers?

I mean, you can try, it’s a free country. The chances are very low but who knows? Online-only sugar daddies exist, they are very few but they exist, so the probability of meeting them is higher than 0. Just make sure you write about it in your dating profile in order to avoid misunderstanding.

Alright, if you’ve been paying attention, you already know how to be a good sugar baby. Now, it’s time to become the best.

Three important sugar baby tips for beginners

Your dating profile must be perfect. If you don’t have a perfectly beautiful and gorgeous photo, go find a photographer with professional skills and pay him for at least a few such photos. This is a very important investment because if your profile photo isn’t good enough, a lot of potential sugar daddies will simply ignore it and not click on it. The same is true about the premium subscription—premium profiles get more likes and are ranked higher, so it’s very important if you want to get the best daddies.
You must be a perfect listener. When I was writing this, I suddenly found out that a lot of babies write that they’re good listeners in their profiles. Well, I don’t know if they’re really as good as they say, but this definitely shows that this skill is very important for sugar daddies today—if not, why do those babies use it as a selling point? Anyways, you need to be able to listen when he’s talking, you need to be smooth enough to make a daddy want to talk to you, and you need to understand when it’s the right time to start talking because—secretly—they don’t just want a listener. What they want is a good conversationalist who knows when to talk and when to listen.
You must look your best. After all, they are not looking for a therapist or for a friend here, they want a sugar baby, and a sugar baby must look perfect if she wants to be successful. Fitness, proper diet, fashionable clothes, and every detail are important.

Top 5 sugar baby rules for beginners: Safety

Yes, all that I’ve said before about sugar babies might sound like some kind of geisha thing, but that’s exactly the point: geishas were charming and had perfect communication skills, they knew how to make a man happy without drama and without any thoughts about serious relationships. And they got their benefits for it, so it sounds exactly like a medieval oriental sugar baby to me.

But now, let’s talk about something else.

You probably know that being a sugar baby can be dangerous. Here’s how you can make it less dangerous for you.

Remember the golden rule of sugar babies: If it seems too good to be true, it is.
Remember about the red flags. If he only talks about sex and the only thing he wants is your nudes, that’s not what you need. It’s not a super-horny sugar daddy, it’s a guy who will ghost after you send him photos. Or much worse.
Remember that your boundaries are important. You’re not a servant or a sex doll, and if a sugar daddy doesn’t respect your boundaries, it’s 100% a red flag. If he insists on things you do not want to do, places you do not want to visit, or having unprotected sex while you said “no”, it’s a very, very huge red flag. Unfortunately, such things happen to sugar babies.
Vetting a potential daddy is essential. It’s ok, you’re not a stalker, you want to protect yourself—a lot of sugar babies forget about this part but hey, you’re going to meet a guy you’ve never met before, you can’t do it without any information about him! Search his photos, find everything possible, find his FB account, make sure he’s really a person he claims he is and not a salty daddy who just wants your nudes.
Don’t let him drive you home from the very first date. Seriously, just don’t, I don’t wanna foster fear but you don’t want to sit in his car until you know him at least a little.

The good news is that it’s certainly not as difficult as it might seem. You just need to start—go to a sugar dating site, create a profile, find your best pictures, and start talking to daddies. If you follow at least a few of those tips, you’ll be a much more successful sugar baby than most girls on that website.